Well it started out being just the tv turning off and on, and know it’s changing channels. The other night a light bulb fell from the fixture in the bathroom a I might add the other half is still in the socket. Well when it hit the vanity I thought oh my god. So about 15 min later I went to look and it was in the sink it was unbroken. We hear very strange noises at night. We feel as we are being watched. It like’s clothes for some reason alot of my clothes will come up missing for a couple of week’s with no sign of them anywhere then one day they will just turn up. It like’s to fold laundry. Aslo another weird thing is that my dog’s will just look at the staircase late at night and just bark and bark non stop. So Im really not sure It seem’s as though it likes to stay upstairs nothing much has happened downstairs. My niece and I have both seen this lady at night she likes to come and stand by the bed. Aslo Im wanting to know do they talk?? Are they mean?? Will they hurt me or my family

Are you really serious? If you are , may I suggest things like lost clothing turning up and light bulbs breaking sound normal. If you are really seeing visions of a lady, well, if she hasn’t harmed you she is probably not mean. Try not to panic . Try to photograph or talk to her. Look up the history of previous tenants of your house for clues. The best explanation I ever heard for ghosts is that they are a kind of electrical "memory" that keeps playing ,like a recording. If you want serious advice, I think you should search on the internet for the nearest college with a paranormal or parapsychology studies program. Beware of amateur psychics or ghost hunters who only want your money. And good luck to you.
Who you gonna call…? Seriously, it could just be a natural phenomenon. It could just be your imagination. It could be anything other than a "ghost".
It does sound like you have what is commonly known as a ghost. If she is standing by your bed it is probably an earth bound spirit that is wondering what you are doing there.
Go to http://www.theshadowlands.net
They have contacts all over the country that can come and help you for free.
Today, in the newspaper it has been proved (finally) that ghost do NOT exist, so lean back, take a deep breath and relax you’re fine!
It’s great that ionbear2 directed you to a free service…and judging by his avatar, I’d take his word. Now for the answer from gooner20…what paper? I’d love to read that, it seems impossible, like proving Yeti or the Lock Ness monster don’t exist… how does one go about that?
I once stayed in a small castle in Ireland, and I was very aware of a presence. It didn’t seem as if I was in any danger, but I it was unnerving just the same. I found out the next day that many people had experienced the same thing in that area of the castle….still not sure how I feel about it. Good luck to you, I hope you get peace of mind soon.